by: Lindsey Ritter
Wake up in the morning go wake up the kids.
Make sure the kids are fed and clothed.
Take out the dogs.
Make sure that their lunches are prepared and packed.
Take the kids to school make sure you are on time!
Hope the kids are on time for school that way you can go to class on time.
Go to class then go to work.
(Make sure work and school fit around the kids schedule in order to pick up the kids for practices and school)
Leave work and pick up the kids.
Take one kid to his baseball practice tonight and then remember tomorrow it is wrestling, then again baseball game and then wrestling match!
Get home and cook a healthy dinner. Because we all know we don’t want our kids to be unhealthy or obese, so something with chicken…I wonder when the kids will get tired of chicken?
Make sure the kids do their homework and then it is off to a shower, brush teeth and BED!
Take out the dogs.
Kids are in bed. Time to go for a run
All sweaty and icky so shower time a must!
Homework time,
Goodnight!
OHH no only 4 hours of sleep AGAIN??
After doing the reading on second wave feminism I started to think to myself is this all for me as well? Now I love my life but constantly feel that I am moving and going this was my week with the kids, I do have help from my significant other but only during the night. The women during the break between the first and second wave were caught in a state of confusion about why they were feeling like something was missing in their lives. That was the freedom of being able to be someone besides a housewife and feeling like there was no choice but to be a housewife. I am not saying there is anything wrong with being a housewife but as we read in the readings “The Problem That Has No Name” women were feeling that something was missing or something was wrong and they were unsure what it was and I believe that most had to do with not having their freedom and not understanding or remembering that women were fighting for their rights and fighting for equality before and that “the chains that bind her in her trap are chains in her own mind and spirit. They are chains made up of mistaken ideas and misinterpreted facts, of incomplete truths and unreal choices,” (290). If we as women have been told something by the dominating society and Capitalism they want us to continue feeling trapped and put under his thumb, the problem is seeing past those lines and seeing the truth, not feeling tied down in chains or wondering is this it? I also question where we are with society today since women have taken on more roles and many still believe should be the main house keeper and take care of the children. Women now have a job because it is difficult to maintain life without two incomes and many women have to still come home and cook or clean. I am lucky and have a significant other who does help me out (when I ask for it because I am very stubborn and feel that I can take on the world…because I am after all a woman and am very proud!). However, most men still have the ideology that women need to come home and clean, cook, and take care of the children even after being at work. So my question then is have we come far enough as some would say we have?
I like to take the example of the original stepford wives because it brought the “concerns and ideologies of second-wave feminism to popular culture, particularly, a woman’s control over her own body,” (Silver, 2002). When Friedan wrote about the women in “the Problem That Has No Name” those concerns that were expressed are replicated in Forbes The Stepford Wives by the two main characters who are fighting Stepford and fighting their inner feelings and their confusion about their town, and the literally interpretation of “fetishizing housework turns women from individuals with goals and ambitions into cleaning appliances: robots,” (Silver, 26).
The original stepford wives trailer:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4zUWOeNfa6Y
The original stepford wives entire movie:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xuG8D8oUn_8